How To Trust Your Partner
Posted By: ava;
Category: Parenting, Family & Relationships;
November 4, 2008
Author Ava A.;
Trust is a major element of a relationship. Without trust, a relationship could easily falter. Here are easy tips to develop trust in your partner.
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Be realistic. You can’t have your partner every minute and his unavailability does not mean that he is not loyal to you or that he is out with someone else so he cannot be with you.
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Keep a well mindset. When you are bothered with your partner’s infidelity and you know that you are being unreasonable, redirect your thoughts by providing yourself with an assurance.
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You choose how you see him. People see the world differently in “different lenses.” Don’t see him through a “lens of mistrust.”
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Share your needs with your partner. Tell him directly that you have trust issues and that proper attention had to temporarily be given to address the issue until you have finally come to trust him.
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No hint please. Hinting oftentimes lead to a lot of misunderstanding and miscommunication. Be clear and direct to the point.
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Get professional help. If you can hardly bare the issue and the situation, professional help may be obtained.
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Don’t think, just trust. You already know you have issues. You already know you are being unreasonable. Avoid over thinking. It will just lead to a bog dilemma and confusion. If you really love him, you need to learn to just trust him.
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Don’t stalk. Stalking is a useless trigger for confusion.
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Be cool. Relax and do not over analyze. Learn to glide with the flow and savor your relationship’s journey.
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